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Of course, we didn’t just need new walls—we needed new windows, too. Thank goodness we don’t live in a covenant-controlled neighborhood because our plan was to replace them two or three at a time until we made it all the way around the house. We paid as we went and that way he could work on one room at a time since he really didn’t have that much time—hey, he had work to do and places to go and people to see.
Although he was confident he could push out the old windows, he knew enough to hire a trusted “retired” contractor—Jerry, a man who had performed many “miracles” completing projects for Sherman’s father and brothers—to install the new windows while he assisted at his side. He didn’t want to repeat the previous owner’s slightly skewed installations—no, he wanted the accuracy that came from a professional who knew his way around a level. Not only did Jerry provide us with straight windows, but he also created beautiful frames to showcase those windows. Sherman completed the project by staining the wood until it glowed like warm honey.
And what did I do to that now warm living room/dining room area? I covered up those beautiful windows with long, formal curtains that my mother-in-law paid a seamstress to make out of the material we had chosen and purchased. That made more sense as we anticipated the births of our twins. If I was going to figure out to nurse two babies, I didn’t really need to worry about what the neighbors could and couldn’t see.Well, those twins are grown now and though the curtains are not worn out, they feel too heavy these days, especially considering the delicious sunshine that can light up these rooms during the winter.
So we did it—we decided to open up the room by installing Duette blinds we can raise and lower as needed. Though the sun’s path across the room is glorious, we do need some way to control that intense sunshine so that it does not wreak havoc on our furniture and rug.
Now if I can only control myself enough to keep it out when I should. Here comes our sun and I can’t help but want to rest into its warmth like a cat in a window seat, but I have work to do, places to go, and people to see—and furnishings to protect, blah, blah, blah.
Still, I can’t help but think our future’s so bright—you know the lyrics—we’re going to have to wear shades.
It was a day such as yesterday, only not quite as golden because the leaves had already fallen. Though we froze waiting to begin our running, most of us finished carrying as many clothing items as we could pull off—and still run without getting tickets for indecency. That race really told me that with proper training I could rely on running again.
My body did reliably keep my feet moving for another two and a half years after that glorious morning. The rest of the story is that one day my back just refused to let me run. In fact, it pretty much balked at moving across the living room.
I’ll just skip the details of many of the chapters that followed and just say that after a year of restrictions and a lot of boring (and painful) rebuilding exercises, my back started to feel much better. So I started running again, right? Not quite but I did say I’d begin my return in the fall—too much ozone and heat in the summer anyway.
And, yet despite a couple attempts last month. . . I cannot exactly say I have committed to that return.
While I may have conquered many of the physical problems, I haven’t really conquered my fear of returning to running (or jogging really slowly—whatever you want to call what I do!)
But back to yesterday: Sherman and I decided to take the dogs to walk in that area where I did that race almost four years ago. The trees and grass were gilded with golden hues that seemed to glow. The path was dirt, the temperature perfect, my clothes appropriate, and my feet must have had a mind (or two!) of their own—they seemed to remember that place and want to go, go, go.
Running joy can be just a little dangerous if we ignore our fitness realities, but I think I managed to find that fine line between pushing myself too little and too hard.
No precise “run this amount, walk this amount”, no timing watch, no inhaler, no plan—just a few running steps here and there from time to time throughout the whole walk. The best way to conquer my fear seemed to be to run whenever I felt like running.
This morning I didn’t wake up sore and, even in a yoga class focused on the hips and lower back, I felt no signs—warning or otherwise—from last year’s injury.
It takes more than one sunny run on a gorgeous path to merge from Memory Lane and all those roads not traveled back into the High Frequency Runner Lane. Yet, I think yesterday’s magical nostalgia tour might have done more for breaking through the fear than the precisely-timed track workouts I tried first. Those I did because I thought I should while yesterday I just ran for love.
Even though Mother Nature helped so much more during the past three summers, I could not sustain the color quite so well. Last year my body was in too much pain for me to put much care into my flowers and the two summers before I was distracted by care for my mother. My view was so inward that I was lucky to water my plants, let alone fertilize the low maintenance plants I seek out.
Even with the best of summer conditions, I am not anyone’s careful gardener. However, with just a little focus on watering, fertilizing, and pruning, the plants I choose can and do thrive—and that’s just how I maintained this summer’s riot of colors.
When last week’s forecasts of snow and/or hard freezes came, I was too greedy for color to let Jack Frost take my flowering containers just yet. Knowing I’d probably lose all the flowers outside in the ground and that the covered flowers in the beds, though protected, would still lose much of their original vim and vigor, I brought inside numerous hanging planters for a little respite from our, no doubt temporary, cold temperatures.After the sun came out again, I brought those containers back to places of outdoor prominence. And, the flowering vines that had suffered from the cold? I tore them down so as to let the color that remained not be marred by those tangled and dying vines’ proof of the looming end for summer growth.
Oh, I will not miss the overly hot summer we had this year with its fires and droughts, but I will miss the colors intensified by the light from all that sunshine we received.
Even though fall is my favorite season, I hate saying goodbye to my glorious flowers. Can you blame me for prolonging their days just a little longer?
In a 24/7 electronic world, I’m sure I can still hear what is said during the debate without listening to it as it happens. I’m already ready to cast my presidential vote but still have decisions to make on the local fronts.
I am so over politics as usual. These are difficult times, but if you listen to all the advertisements, the way to solve our problems is to put down anyone who isn’t on your side, whatever that side may be.
No! The way to solve our problems is to start working together and to stop thinking that compromise is a dirty word.
I am not sure why anyone would want to run for office in these divisive days. I’m especially disgusted by the attack advertisements promoted not by the candidates, but by Political Action Committees (PACs) and other faceless, nameless groups.
If I were a candidate, I’d be pretty upset that these people were slandering my opponent—supposedly in my name. We seem to be Ground Zero here because we have two young voters registered in two parties. Most of the literature comes addressed to them, not my husband or me. (Does that mean we’re committing mail fraud if we read those postcards before they do? Yikes!)
But according to those flyers, for example, we have a choice between voting for a “deadbeat” or an “ATM” for the legislature. (If I had no soul and wanted to make good money writing, then I’d write that sort of thing!) Really? And we wonder why kids are having trouble with bullies in school.
And don’t even get me started about all the money being spent on these elections. Wouldn’t it be nice if people with that kind of money just wanted to use it to take care of the problems we have?
Don’t mind me—I’m still looking for that kinder, gentler nation someone once said we could create. I know it can still happen, but it’s going to take the voters of this nation telling the attackers that we’ll never get there if we can’t even make it to Election Day without assaulting everyone who runs for office.
How can we expect our elected officials to be good at playing nice, if they first have to go through full-out battle—from all sides—to make it into those elected positions?
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